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102 As a 1930s wife, I am Very Superior Take the test!

HAHAHAHHA! I am a very superior 1930's woman.....very interesting! Write more later!

Even more intersting is my so what I match we make!

141 As a 1930s husband, I am Very Superior Take the test!

AWWW It's Wednesday!

Ok, so most would not be excited about this day...however for me, it is an awseome day. Not only do I get to leave work an hour and a half early, and I get to pick up my kiddos......which means on a good day everyone is happy, and on a bad day like today, my baby is tired and cried most of the way home. The Schwans guy came early and dear SO is not here to tell me what he wants. And to top it all off we are now fighting over the empty room that no one wanted to begin with, my baby is soooo upset because she thinks she will not have a bed to sleep in tonight. The six year old didn't have school the last two days but brought home all sorts of homework that is due Friday....Thank goodness for after school care that has an hour of homework time :)!

I learned something else this evening my puppy who is all ways quiet never barks, was outside barking for 1/2 and hour so finally I thought hmmm Gunner never barks maybe I should go check on him....the puppy had a cat cornered on the fence. Normally I would saw awwww poor kitty, however we live in a foreclosure neighborhood, which means people have left their cats behind, some pregnant with kittens, it is sad very, very sad!

Well, I guess I should stop blogging and actually spend time with my children who do not even know I exist because Cinderella II is on......luckily I don't have to worry about dinner.....McDonalds Night......easiest way to commute the 45 minutes, tommorrow night I will cook though maybe chicken time will tell.

And always remeber if we love ourselves, we will love others in the same way!

Veterans Day!

As I sit at home this Veterans Day, I wonder why Veterans must work on a day that was meant to honor them. I can see if a whole company does not want to close but come on at least give the Veterans a day off. My SO is a veteran he served in the Marines (Semper Fi), was over seas in Japan for awhile. I have a friend whose son is in Iraq as I type this for his second tour. I know my freedom was not free, many gave their lives for it. I know my SO would go back in a heart beat lucky for me he is to old, but I would have supported him in his decision no matter what. It makes me think of my dad (my birth father) he was a Navy man, served on a boat, I think! Anyways, I wish I could say thank you to not only the men and women who fight for our freedom, but also to the husbands and wives, and sons and daughters, that let them go, knowing they may never return. May God Bless you all.

I do have some second wife stuff Yeah me, cause the drama just never ends. Found out last night that the ex-wife has decided it would be a good idea and not keep her books up to date, and she didn't file quarterly taxes because she just couldn't "afford" them. Are you kidding me!!!!!!!!!!! So now it is back to decision time on whether or not we are going back to court, to bust her out that she lied on her court papers.....drama, drama, drama. My advice to all of you out there who think divorce is an option, the only way that it is a good option, for your kids, is if you can swallow your pride, your anger, your bitterness, and get along no matter what with the "other" parent. My ex and I can walk into a room and still look married, I don't hate him, and he doesn't hate me, and in that comes the fact that divorce is ok for my kids. Daddy is happy, mommy is happy, they are happy. When you argue and fight, and are bitter and angry, and hateful, don't think those eyes and ears are not watching you they are. They are watching and listening to EVERYTHING you do, and in this it just might ruin the relationship they would have had with the other parent out of loyalty to you, something to think about!

Untill, tomorrow, Have a Blessed Day, and Please don't forget to say Thank You to a vet today for their service.

MY FIRST POST

Ok, so here we go. Obviously, since I am a second wife twice that also means I am a divorcee.....My first round of second wife, was with a man whom I was a 9 year rebound for but this marriage produced to beautiful girls. And we get along, I got absolutely nothing out of the marriage material wise, but I have learned a huge lesson in the importance of supporting myself and my two little girls. I am proud of myself. Is that bad to say??? I am proud that I will do anything for them to have a relationship with their father. I drive 2 hours a day to commute to a job that passes threir school so they can still live with their dad part time, and I must say it is pretty awesome.

However, in my position of being the second wife once again, I am learning things that honestly I don't understand. I don't understand a mother who says that she wants her kids to see their father but complains that she has to drive 30 mins to pick them up? I am amazed that instead of getting a job to support herself, she insteasd chooses to work as little as possible, making her ex-husband support her. Am I mistaken, but he supported you for 16 years, it is your job to support yourself now not his. And the constant complaining and arguing, it makes me want to scream.

And why lie, what exactly are you going to achieve from lying to a court.....why try to hide things if you are telling the truth.

The other problem with being the second wife twice is that I have learned that that big beautiful wedding girls dream of, yeah the guy didn't want it the first time and definately doesn't want it the second time. And kids, as they get older, and wiser so to speak, they no longer want those either. Leaving the second wife somewhat lost in transition.

So, I guess I will make the best of what I have and learn to live with what will never be!