Veterans Day!

As I sit at home this Veterans Day, I wonder why Veterans must work on a day that was meant to honor them. I can see if a whole company does not want to close but come on at least give the Veterans a day off. My SO is a veteran he served in the Marines (Semper Fi), was over seas in Japan for awhile. I have a friend whose son is in Iraq as I type this for his second tour. I know my freedom was not free, many gave their lives for it. I know my SO would go back in a heart beat lucky for me he is to old, but I would have supported him in his decision no matter what. It makes me think of my dad (my birth father) he was a Navy man, served on a boat, I think! Anyways, I wish I could say thank you to not only the men and women who fight for our freedom, but also to the husbands and wives, and sons and daughters, that let them go, knowing they may never return. May God Bless you all.

I do have some second wife stuff Yeah me, cause the drama just never ends. Found out last night that the ex-wife has decided it would be a good idea and not keep her books up to date, and she didn't file quarterly taxes because she just couldn't "afford" them. Are you kidding me!!!!!!!!!!! So now it is back to decision time on whether or not we are going back to court, to bust her out that she lied on her court papers.....drama, drama, drama. My advice to all of you out there who think divorce is an option, the only way that it is a good option, for your kids, is if you can swallow your pride, your anger, your bitterness, and get along no matter what with the "other" parent. My ex and I can walk into a room and still look married, I don't hate him, and he doesn't hate me, and in that comes the fact that divorce is ok for my kids. Daddy is happy, mommy is happy, they are happy. When you argue and fight, and are bitter and angry, and hateful, don't think those eyes and ears are not watching you they are. They are watching and listening to EVERYTHING you do, and in this it just might ruin the relationship they would have had with the other parent out of loyalty to you, something to think about!

Untill, tomorrow, Have a Blessed Day, and Please don't forget to say Thank You to a vet today for their service.